Thursday, January 12, 2012

Relationship Reflection

Relationship Reflection

These are some of my favorite quotes

 The quality of your life is the quality of your relationships.” 

Anthony Robbins 

“Some people come into our lives and quickly go. Some stay for a while, leave footprints on our hearts, and we are never, ever the same.” 
Flavia Weedn


Relationships are important to me because the more  supportive relationship you have you are able  to communicate your thoughts, feeling, emotions and enable you accept criticism that will help you throughout life. Everybody crave and need social contact whether its from family, friends, church, or pets.  These supportive relationships has helped me with the death of my mother. Relationships bring fun, fulfillment, comfort, and joy and takes the stress out of your life. 

I have several relationships that play a vital role in my life, such as my husband, children, brother and my Sorority Sisters of Zeta Phi Beta  Sorority. My husband and I have a    relationship that I can share anything with him and he does not look down on me he supports everything I do and gives me advice even if I don't like it. We help each other and we live, think and pray together. My relationship with my brother is a sibling relationship, family must always support and communicate with each other. My sorority sisters provide a relationships the helps me get through times when I need that sisterly excitement and I am able to have that sisterly love because I am a only girl, so I am blessed to have a family of sisters to talk to on a daily basis.

I think that everyone must have respect, good communication skills, love, friendship, compassion in order to have good relationships in life. The relationships I have people really comes from the relationships I had as a child. I remember my dad always talk with me about my day at school or whatever, I guess that's why I try to ask questions and be concern about what parents think and encourage their participation in the program. All of the relationships that I have had in the past and the relationships I have now play a major part in the way I treat parents at the first meeting with them. I treat people the way I really want to be treated. 

5 comments:

  1. Nice quotes Debra! I especially liked the one by Anthony Robbins because it is so true. It sound like you have a good and solid support group within your various relationships.

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  2. Thank you for sharing about your personal relationships. The friend I mentioned on my relationship reflection lost her mother two years ago. We rely on each other for support and advice. She tells me often how she values our friendship and how I am always there for her. I always let her know that the feeling is mutual. She provides me with the same love and support that I give to her. I may still have my mother in my life but I still need her friendship. I am glad you have people around you who do the same.

    Krista

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  3. Hi Debra,

    I love that quote! I am sorry to hear about the loss of your mother, I loss my father two years ago as well and miss him very much. I agree that support from family will get you through tough times. I thank God for giving me family and friends to lean on; if you need someone to talk to please feel free to send me a message.

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  4. Hello Debra,

    Of course, your quotes were so heartfelt, especially the one by Flavia Weedn. I beleive that we have all developed relationships with someone over the course of our lives and that person has died or moved to a different area. However, if the relationship was meaningful it will have an everlasting effect in our life. Its good that you have such a strong support team in your life.

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  5. Hi Debra,

    I love the quotes too! I also agree with you that good relationships have good communication! Sometimes its difficult to hear what is being said, but its easier to hear it from those that you have great relationships with. I think that is when you really take it to heart.

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